Ask Uncle Issa - Answer With a Pinch of Pepper

    Disclaimer:  Please be aware that I am offering general advice that is supposed to be humorous, sarcastic and factual, based on my personal perspective. For professional guidance on relationships, it is crucial to consult with counsellors and mental health professionals. Ask uncle Issa Questions: I have been in a relationship on and off with a married man for 10 years. We even have a six-year son but he has only seen the boy about five times. When he feels like, he sends KS. 5000 which could be after three months. Apart from that, he has never done anything for the baby, and even did not pay the local clinic when I delivered. He doesn’t care what his son eats, whether he has any health needs or whether he even goes to school. He goes to the local public school in my estate because I cannot afford to take him to a private academy.  His children by his wife on the other hand, attend expensive private school. I have tried to at least get help from him with schoo...

Disclaimer:  Please be aware that the preceding response contains elements of humour and sarcasm intended for entertainment. The following section offers more direct and practical advice regarding your situation. For professional guidance on marital issues, please consult with a qualified marriage counsellor or therapist. Ask uncle Issa Question: Please help! My marriage is on a downhill roll after five years. I was courted and lifted off my feet by a man that I eventually married, but he doesn’t behave like my prince charming. He does not treat me the same way. I'm exhausted just trying to be nice.  For how long am I to tolerate this? And yet he puts the blame on me. He says that I don’t seem to have time for him and that my job is more important, but that’s not true. I put a lot of premium on our marriage, and I want it to work. Please advise me. Answer: After five years, your marriage is on a downhill trajectory. Let me be open with you. The rollercoaster started the moment...