Ask Uncle Issa - Answer With a Pinch of Pepper

  Please Note: Uncle Issa offers his wisdom with a generous dose of humour and personal opinion. While the advice aims to be insightful, it is not a substitute for professional counselling or therapy. If you are experiencing serious marital difficulties, seeking guidance from a qualified relationship expert is strongly recommended. Take Uncle Issa's pronouncements with a grain of salt and a hearty laugh!   Ask Uncle Issa Question: Dear Uncle Issa. Help me to improve communication with my husband. We have been married for seven years now. My husband and I have three children. The problem is that we argue about virtually everything. I started a project recently, and he is livid about it. I put my foot down and told him that I will go on with it, with or without it. He has gone into a ‘nil by mouth,’ so we rarely talk. When we do, it is a quarrel or argument. According to him, I have no respect in the way I address issues to him. I fear that he is contemplating leaving, y...

Disclaimer:  Please be aware that the preceding response contains elements of humour and sarcasm intended for entertainment. For professional guidance on relationships, please consult with a qualified marriage counsellor or therapist. Ask Uncle Issa Question : Dear Uncle Issa . I have a problem. My daughter, who has been a good girl, always asking Mummy for help with her difficult questions has changed. She is moody and in deep thought, most of the time when she’s not browsing on her phone. She is distant, yet we were so close. When I inquire, on her moodiness, she becomes hostile and tells me that she has no problem. But I notice that she soon cries herself to sleep. She spends days holed up in her room for days. She also does not get along with her brothers and sisters. I am sure she is sick. She used to be so bubbly and friendly. I really wish I could understand her and help her to overcome whatever problem she has. First I want to be able to talk to her. Please help me. Answer...