Ask Uncle Issa - Answer With a Pinch of Pepper

Ask Uncle Issa Question: in the course of my studies, I fell in love and got a son. However, that relationship was doomed and my girlfriend left with the baby. I covered all the cost and to this day I still contribute to the child’s needs willingly. But my ex has ensured that I do not see the child or speak to him even by phone. I suffer from her insults every time I try to convince her to let me speak to my son. I last set my eyes on him over six years ago, yet the boy is now eight-years-old. But she does not hesitate to call when she’s in need, which I translated as a need for my son. Since I only want the best for him, I usually send the money that she asks for. When I fall in love with another girl, she uncannily finds out and even gets her number. She starts to call my girlfriend, insults her and tells her a lot of lies about me. Eventually she gives the girl an ultimatum-To leave me or have to face her. Several girls have given up and left me. Even three girls that I was eng...